11th November, 2021
You've known me here, on my blog for over 6 years now... Once, I wrote an article about things that led me to create this virtual space and I saw that not long after the publication, many of you started your own blogs, online businesses, something truly amazing and close to your hearts. I've received a ton of the most heart warming comments and touching messages from young girls overcoming their fears, coming out their shells or finally believing in their dreams and ticking off their tasks and goals of the list. There is something like KARMA in this beautiful world, some people call it punishment & reward, and on that note my darling, stay assured that if you give the world good energy - it will always come back to you... I'm here, still in my 20's (late 20's!), I don't know much about life, but what I do know is what limits us humans in this life. What really makes us afraid to finally move forward and gallop through life at our best pace & on our own terms!
Let others be who they want to be...
I have been walking this planet for just under 30 years and I have lived through and learned about various plagues such as droughts, storms, floods, statements of our politicians, I even survived the coronavirus pandemic, but I swear - the greatest plague known to me are... people...
People who instead of taking care of their own grass, and making it greener, they rather count the sprouts on your lawn. The Susans who advise their work colleagues to leave her husband, meanwhile they accept their partners alcoholism on a daily basis. Or parents who barely passed their GCSE's, but demand the most faultless school reports and a degree from their children. The rule is simple: homosexuals bother you - look the other way! You're against meat consumption - become vegetarian! You don't believe in certain religions - follow your own...
Let people be, who they want to be. If it doesn't concern you, leave it. Each of us has the right to our own perspective, worldview, style, behaviour, so instead of "fixing" others, look around you - because there's so much there to fix and HEAL!
Only you decide, how you perceive the world...
About a decade ago I watched a program that everyone loved at the time called: "Dancing with the stars". The daughter of the (back then) prime minister - performed on it. She was very lovely and modest. A few years after that - she began to write her own blog and the media started to talk about it left, right and centre. It has not yet been called a blog, because hardly anyone knew about that term back then.
With her unique and attractive stylizations, the girl went sky rocket in inspiring other females, whilst making great income on top of it. At that time, 90% of the society believed that her famous Prime Minister (at the time) "dad did it for her", 9% of the people said that "it would not last long" - and about 1% of people praised her for the great work she put in and the outstanding results and inspiration that she became in such a short amount of time...
I'm not saying that you have to become an influencer of any sort, I want you to be aware that there is certainly competition in every industry, but also - there is only ONE of YOU in this world... You can perceive this in two different perspectives. The envious one - where an unfavourable hatred directed towards others who succeeded before you will not benefit anything in your life... Or with "a twinkle in the eye” and enthusiasm that will allow you to be inspired and learn from others. In this case - everything WILL benefit you and your life WILL change!
Nothing happens when you do... nothing...
I used to wonder how is it possible that there are people out there, who have huge - amazing dreams, beautiful, unique, breath taking goals and visions - yet they sit slothfully on their asses with no future plans nor any motivation to walk towards their goals... They settle for bad choices, poor relationships, unhealthy food, poor habits and everything in-between.
Our sphere of influence on our life is extremely wide. The problem is, most of us don't do anything about it. We stand there afraid that by speaking out loud - others might laugh at us. We are so afraid of making one mistake, or taking risks that we give up every opportunity that the Universe throws our way.
Read a book. Go for a walk. Enrol for a course. Design the first t-shirt from the new collection you've always dreamed of. Pick up your camera and start taking photos because you believe in your skills! Sing your heart out loud to your friends or family because you know your voice is to die for! Just start doing whatever you want each day to bring you closer to what you set out to do. Someone might say it's not much. Little things, baby steps ?? Well that's how everything comes to life. Become 100% you, love the fuck out of yourself and bring to the world what you're meant to bring...
